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Where We Going?

In Family by Allison Byxbe

Dear Reed, Happy fourth birthday! Even though this is year four of your journey, it’s also been a year of firsts! Your first year of preschool, your first steps, your …

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How to Ruin a Vacation

In Personal by Allison Byxbe

That way? No, a little boy sleeping in a hospital bed  doesn’t ruin a vacation. Just delays it. But it’s my heart that reduces a gracious gift to an ash-heap …

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Happy First Birthday, Luke!

In Family by Allison Byxbe

Dear Luke, One year ago we were just getting acquainted, you all fresh and new, me learning again how to become a mama when no two babies are exactly alike. Your nana …

Happy Third Birthday

In Family by Allison Byxbe

Dear Reed, Three years has unfolded an observant nature. A giggly, silly, make yourself laugh personality. A determined and sometimes stubborn spirit. A gentle, kind soul. And a love for …

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Happy Birthday

In Family by Allison Byxbe

Dear Samuel Reed, Two years old today. Did you know that the night leading up to your birth, your Nana, Aunt Erin, and Aunt JJ all waited at the hospital …

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Going Second

In Personal by Allison Byxbe

Difficult circumstances can feel isolating. Something bad happens and we feel as if we’re the only one going through it. No one else understands it or us — in fact, …

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Happy 7th Birthday, Lucas!

In Family by Allison Byxbe

Dear Lucas, I’ll start with a confession. I didn’t write your annual birthday post last year, and so tonight, as you rest in your bed (cause I know you’re not …